Lover… can we talk dirty for a moment?
No, seriously.
Not just the moans and the filthy whispers (though, goddess yes!!! more of that please)…
Let’s talk about dirty ( pleasure ) talk. The words we crave to hear… or at times fear to speak.
For some, dirty talk is the eroticism to their ecstasy.
And for others, it feels like speaking a foreign language while naked under pressure that turns things south in a second.
Is dirty talk hot... or just awkward for you? Just like any other skill it needs to be practiced.
What is great about it? The Pros:
It can turn you and your body on with just words alone. A whisper in your ear can feel like a hand on your thigh. ( mmmhhh melt )
It builds anticipation and tension. (Tease me with your voice before you touch me.)
It’s a playground for desire, fantasy, and power dynamics.
It helps you claim your desires out loud which is seriously hot AF.
AND It builds intimacy
What is not so hot about it….
It can feel awkward or performative if it’s not authentic.
Some people go straight to porn language which might feel disconnected or harsh.
It can bring up shame, self-consciousness, or fear of saying the “wrong” thing.
If partners are not attuned, it can miss the mark (and kill the mood instead of lighting it up).
Without consent and boundaries, dirty talk can go from hot to harmful real fast.
So… how do we make dirty talk hot?
In my video above I go through the ways to do so and I have included a great resource to get started on your sexy journey of turning your words into a sexy party all on their own.
Basically, your voice is as powerful as your body.
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With moans, magic, and a wink,
Melissa Louise
Sacred Sexuality Coach | Erotic Blueprint™ Mentor
Turning you on, one word at a time 💋
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