.NO…….this is not shade on committed relationships, so stick with me….
“They” built an entire culture around a lie.
The lie of success, laced in romantic love, signed in ink as commitment and called monogamy. ( it is actually monopoly…but hay they could not even get the wording right..and society ran with it…)
And now it is systematically and slowly neurologically damaging an entire generation of boys.
Not because the commitment of two people who love each other inside of monogamy itself is wrong.
But because this style of relationship required under the “law” of monogamy, has basically weaponized and contradicted the way humans are designed to relate, support and live with and among one another.
Monopoly has twisted our existence into an isolated nuclear family model where only two people, and for much of our recent times. only one woman, carries the full weight of raising children alone. We have taken the human care of children by community ( the village ) and turned it into a cage of isolation, fear, poverty and desperation.
And the boys are paying the price.
Male infants are born more vulnerable than girls.
Boys develop more slowly than girls. Their brains undergo different developmental trajectories, they are more sensitive to environmental stress and they are more reactive to chaos such as poverty. ……………………………….
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(There is nothing wrong with exclusivity when it comes to sexual connections, but we have to stop romanticizing how this means requiring the marriage to do everything for those involved. it is just f*cking dangerous.
Our boys are not failing.
We are failing them.
And it starts with how we treat the women raising them. Everything…everything begins with the mother……… there is just no way around it for gods sake.)
