Flirting is a dance

It is always better to dance like a Salsa than line dancing !

Lovers,

A few weeks ago Marni Kinrys ( creator of The Wing Girl Method ) and I had a fun chat about what works with women in the world of flirting….

And we should know. As a wing girl, I get to share some pretty damn wonderful frameworks created and tested by Marni through her work, to so many men each week.

Flirting is a dance. Not a pitch nor is it a straight line from hello to bed.

A dance.

And the dance exists for one very necessary primal reason. It is how a woman’s sytem checks whether it is safe to lean in and open.

Yet…most men do not move like this. They move in a straight line, tunnel vision locked, already three steps ahead into the solution, the plan, the future where this goes well. Point A, met her. Point B, number. Point C, date. Point D, you know where point D is….. ( yep….. D can be for what ever you want it to mean… destination is what it means here,, wink wink 😜 )

And there is nothing wring with Point D…. Point D is where our dreams and fantasies live also…. the problem is not the where this desire lives, it is the speed men are wanting to get there.

A woman’s system does not open under speed. It does exactly the opposite.. it closes. The moment a man goes too direct, too fast, too “let’s skip to the part where we I tell you are sexy, where we touching or even kissing” her body reads it as unsafe, and the whole dance shuts down before it started. And for many women this is disappointing because it is not that she did not like him, he body became guarded because he skipped the part where trust and safety is to be built.

This is exactly what I to get teach inside The Wing Girl Method created by Marni Kinrys as a wing girl. Yes it is as fun as it sounds. How to flirt in a way a woman’s whole system can actually say yes to. Slower, playful and safe enough to open where she is excited enough to want to.

In this episode Marni and I talk about two of my most favourite frameworks of hers, which I love sharing and practicing with the men. Go listen here on Youtube or here on spotify

Always with Pleasure
M
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PS…. if you are a man reading this and after watching the episode you are like “OH yeah..THIS is what I need…hit reply to this email and I will set you up with someone who can take you through the entire program and work out which part of it ( if not all of it ) would suit you best …and yes..you can request me as your wing girl !!

Time and time again I hear from the men inside of the program that they had no idea it would be so rich and life changing in all areas…. flirting with women…is not “just flirting with women”. jajajja